Family's nurse frequently changes " after 00 " Child's psychological problem proportion rises

Family's nurse frequently changes " after 00 " Child's psychological problem proportion rises
"My family has nurses "
" after 00 " This generation, is looked after and becomes a kind of general phenomenon by the nurse. " the nurse " Is a generation happy? Some child live bad in fact. The expert recommend, in the past two years, the child brought up by the nurse has appeared the proportion of the psychological problem has obviously risen, increase progressively by about 10% every year.
One first grade primary school student of Luwan district of this city is young and beautiful since born in, follow several terms of nurses and grow up. The teacher finds the little beautiful achievement at school is outstanding, the personality is quiet, but the temper is very bad, once conflict with teacher's classmates, will appear from cruel inclination. Little and beautiful parents discover too, the daughter is more and more not obedient at home. For example have supper, small to quarrel, go out, play while being beautiful, parents let her go out eat up, meal, she will make a scene, even knock into the wall with the head angrily, does not " give up without reaching the purpose. " Expert's thinking, since the small and beautiful one is cruel for drawing the attention of parents to her and attention after being to testing and communicating youngly and beautifully.
Little beautiful parents say, the family asks the nurse to be really cannot help but, they work hard in order to let child's basic necessities of life be carefree, have never expected that will cause the injury to the child's growth. Reporter know little beautiful parents few and free small to have a chat about thing that take place under school together while being beautiful busy with work, often parents get back to home at night, so small and beautiful as to already sleep.
Teacher's old acquiescence of consultation of the operating room of psychological consultation of East China Normal University is, the person who looks after the child must have maternal instinct very much, and should fix, could give children steady psychology to depend on. Can't often keep in touch with mother, the nurse of the family frequently changes, the child will produce sense of insecurity.
It is reported, ask the nurse to lead the child's parents to get more and more. Come, help Mr. Li of housekeeping reveal, get company ask nurse it leads employers of child to be very many the past two years, account for the intersection of employer and 70%- 80% of total number, one have, have various schools of thinkers right away month.
The operating room of psychological consultation of East China Normal University is consulted teacher Qiao LiPing and introduced: In the past two years, the child brought up by the nurse has appeared the proportion of the psychological problem is on the rise, increase progressively by about 10% every year. Nurse often can only look after daily daily life and personal security of child, its differ greatly with living environment of child by quality, habit and the intersection of language and culture, unable to carry on education and thoughts communication to the child, so the child will present the disappearances of emotion and thoughts communication.
The expert proposes: The child had better be brought by mother, the psychological development of this pair of children is more favorable. Once the child asking the nurse to look after presents the psychological problem, child and parents should all let the psychological expert carry on the psychological consultation of some time, study why take over, look after child from nurse parents, parents, and how go on psychology to be interdynamic between the child, could correct the child's psychological problem progressively in this way.
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