Family's cold violence Pain of couple's psychology

Family's cold violence Pain of couple's psychology
Generally speaking, mention family's violence, will be regarded as the violence that receive on the human body. In fact, in some families at present, the violence form has already been not merely limited to the Chinese boxing is added, badly battered, another kind of recessive family's spirit injuring the force even more " Cold violence "A lot of women " Ache in the heart " .
Ms. Liu is a professional woman of Fuyang of Anhui Province, married for 12 years, there is a 11 -year-old daughter. After the husband had extramarital relations 5 years ago, they have been living in incessant quarrel all the time, the husband often hits her in death. Later, under the warnings of people and the Women's Federation of her her parent's home, the husband did not dare to hit her, but her agony is not over - -The husband treated her coldly from then on, either did not go home for a long time, or tried every possible means to insult her once going home. This kind is spiritual to maltreat and make Ms. Liu in severe pain even more, but there is no method at all. So far, for the growing up healthy and sound of the daughter, she still stands this kind of unspeakable " aches " alone .
This is typical spirit of family " The cold violence " Case,it is not merely been but unique is only. Woman's psychological consultative centre of red Chinese sweet gum of Beijing statistics show, while dialing woman's woman whose hot line seek help of red Chinese sweet gum in 100, 19 persons often suffer language violence; 36 person suffer the intersection of language and violence and the intersection of limb and double injury of violence at the same time, have some people stand, mustn't enter room, mustn't have a meal and the intersection of restriction and freedom of person,etc. torment.
Spirit " cold violence " It is likewise family's violence
Zhang XiuLan, president of the Municipal Women's Federation of Fuyang of Anhui, introduces, the experience of Ms. Liu belongs to a question easy to be ignored in the modern family's violence - -Spirit " cold violence " . At present, the similar case has the tendency to rise in the appeal of family's violence gradually. Unless for causing this kinds of phenomenon, think XiuLan Zhang,with in recent years against family the propagandas of violence, husband hit wife can criticize by masses and related departments control brazenly, so, this kind of more obscure means deal with the life companion after a lot of people have adopted the spiritual injury, insult, treat coldly, speech irritate etc..
The troubling one is, to the family " cold violence " in the society at present Understanding have great deviation. Relevant investigations show, 50% of the interviewees think, restrain wife and friend from associating, it is not family's violence not to speak, refuse the violence of spiritual aspect of defective weakness,etc. passing the sexual life, sneering at the wife with the wife with the wife for a long time for a long time, hit only, injury the intersection of person who cause death, maltreat and body violence and sexual violence family's violence.
In fact, according to the definition of the scientific technical appraisement research institute of court of Beijing: Family violence mean one party carry on body and injury of spirit or maltreat with strength, words, other way to other party on purpose between the kinsfolks, infringe the intersection of citizen and personal illegal activities of right, include bodily injury, spirit wreck, threaten, restrain the intersection of others and the intersection of action and freedom and sex from maltreat with violence mainly.
Beijing red the intersection of Chinese sweet gum and woman competent to think family violence should include 4 behavior of while being beautiful in king in founder of hot line, except limb violence, spirit maltreat and sex maltreat, it limits freedom of person and economical control to be the intersection of family and range of violence.

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