The feeling of loneliness becomes the elderly's most common worry Chattering can divert oneself from loneliness or boredom lonelily

The feeling of loneliness becomes the elderly's most common worry Chattering can divert oneself from loneliness or boredom lonelily
Hundred million already passes in old population of our country, is marching toward the senilization society progressively. The elderly not only need treatment of the aspect of material, need satisfaction of cultural life even more. But realistic state allow objective, the elderly various physiology and disease of psychology tired often. Among them, the feeling of loneliness is the most common phenomenon. Senior piece, teacher of psychological consultation, abundant to exceed, think this the intersection of the elderly and own thing not merely, also need many kinds of efforts of family and the society.
The lonely old man is apt to have dust thrown into the eyes
The intersection of Wuhan University and master of psychology, doctor of philosophy, senior piece, teacher of psychological consultation, abundant to exceed when being interviewed by staff reporter saying, the feeling of loneliness is a common question to the elderly. Being usually shown as is lonely, depressed, vexed, talk with people little. If does not prevent and cure in time, as time passes, the feeling of loneliness is strengthened slowly, cause more serious consequence, it is possible to derive spiritual disease out.
First, the old person, after retirement, the working environment will not exist, the living environment changes greatly, this makes them difficult to suit. "unless go to work before every day, busy very,where time come " Lonely" Ah! Having lacked the job group after retiring, too unoccupied in life, this is lonely. " It is exceeded and said teasing that one is abundant. He thinks, present the old men's already complete " been subverted " Original life style.
Second, urbanized development is driving the whole quickening of social rhythm on one hand, on the other hand has even accelerated the senilization trend of our country. Children are mostly busy with every undertaking, there is fewer and fewer time to come back home to accompany the old man, the empty nest family increases.
It is exceeded and said that one is abundant, another important reason is, the elderly, to the death, have baffled sense of fear, which position appeared the pain sense at the body, associate it with and die at once. Have the idea prone to psychological problem very, depressed lonely to mostly relate to this respect.
It is very important that children show understanding and tolerate
Piece abundant to exceed, think migrate to city like Shenzhen, the intersection of Guangzhou and this kind, the elderly appear rate of feeling of loneliness high.
Piece abundant to exceed, say since question born because of being lonely, solve way of problem, can only strengthen and exchange, the loneliness of diverting oneself from loneliness or boredom. "Set up the chaining of the elderly's information, emotion, it is the way to solve only autism. "
The chaining of information means, the elderly should learn to pay close attention to the social trends, understand more things happening at one's side, know the human nature clearly, in case the rights and interests are damaged.
Have the intersection of old person and what too much, chatter all day, does not stop repeatedly. Why can the elderly make and chatter? Because the feeling of loneliness that they divert oneself from loneliness or boredom by this kind of means, and is regarded as children, need to tolerate this kind of behavior of theirs.
The chaining of the emotion, mean family and the society should provide the carriers of good emotion communication for the elderly. Lead the emotion of the elderly to develop in the positive direction. This requires children to construct the good family atmosphere at first, understand the psychology of the old man, make allowances for the difficulty of the old man, often come back home to have a look, hear the old man's innermost thoughts and feelings, taste the homely dish, does not allow old man's having the feeling which the family ignores.
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