Students present the psychological problem expert and claim to be ill to have mark to follow again and again

Students present the psychological problem expert and claim to be ill to have mark to follow again and again
The reporter learns, it is near during these days it has been examined many because of the students coming to go to a doctor of the psychological problemly that this department met in the psychological psychiatric department of large hospital in Southeast China University attaches to, even as big as senior that graduate quickly, so small little Tong 2 year old of the kindergarten just, mainly shown as and detested learning, felt self-humiliation, self-imposed etc.. The psychology spiritual head of the department Dr. Yuan YongGuies of this institute say, student's psychological problem is sent the vigilance that should cause parents and teacher frequently, there is a inducement in the appearance of any psychological problem, care about more children at ordinary times, communicate with the child more, could discover the problems in time, thus intervene effectively, prevent the occurrence of this kind of problem.
Suffer from " ill that the new term begins " Every age bracket capital have
Case one: Tong Tong is two and a half years old this year, it is a little lively and lovely boy, September 1 this year, mother sends him to the primary class on a nearby kindergarten. Recently, but mother has found children will cry oneself to wake up at night of every day, calling " I don't go to school " . Daytime does not become talkative either, but to Saturday Sunday, Tong Tong will be very glad. Mother feels very strange, is bringing child to see a psychologist. The intersection of child and child bully other child in kindergarten, the sense of fear produced to the kindergarten originally.
Case two: Small refined this year 6 grade, classmate said that oneself no wanted, go to school join a regular shift often recently, the teacher has told the little and refined mother this, mother questions the thing of going to school, quarrels with mother, run away from home if it is small and refined. Because there is not money, while running also, coming back home evening, the meal is not eaten either, has been playing with the computer there. Mother scolds him, let him read, he does not hear. Having no choice, mother has to bring light to think psychologist while being refined.
The achievement has been good all the time before small refined grade 3 originally, transferred to another school to the present school later, the high pressure of the competition, the achievement can not catch up with either, the child is not self-confident. After entering grade 6, face the pressure of high school entrance examination, the little refined psychology is unable to bear, thus has produced the psychology of giving oneself up as hopeless and detested the mood studied. And mother's way of communication has problems, cause the intensification of contradictions. The psychologist proposes it does psychological consultation and psychotherapy regularly.
Case three: Dawn the intersection of tinkling of pieces of jade and 4 grade, homework make once, teacher come, check, dawn urine trousers of tinkling of pieces of jade under being tense. Have never expected that has been found by the deskmate's schoolboy, and said. In the face of to roar with laughter and whisper classmate, self-esteem of tinkling of pieces of jade receive attacking serious dawn, she is unwilling to go to school again after going home. No matter how parents have coaxed won't do, later on useless that parents are worried to curse and beat the tinkling of pieces of jade of dawn, parents can only turn to a psychologist for help finally.
Taking some medicines and coming to naught at the beginning, the child can only suspend schooling for one year. Under the psychologist's suggestion later, the parents of the tinkling of pieces of jade helped her to incorporate the group again through the mild and indirect way dawn, fade from memory that piece of unpleasant experiences. They choose dawn the interest class that the tinkling of pieces of jade like lets her participate in, so long as make some scores, parents give her various encouragements and reward, take her to go to travel, buy the small present that she likes. Still encourage her to play the violin in the Residential Area, rebuild her confidence and courage, get rid of gradually dawn tinkling of pieces of jade gradually to last shade of incident,can performances calm. In the tutorial class, the tinkling of pieces of jade became active too, and received the teacher's praise dawn. In September of this year, parents send her to, reply, read, because know the real situation the marks of the examination and manifestation after starting a new term are very good, the tinkling of pieces of jade is still appointed as monitor by the teacher dawn.

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