It is not lazy that the child does things and dawdles Look into or have stealthy hyperkinetic syndrome early

It is not lazy that the child does things and dawdles Look into or have stealthy hyperkinetic syndrome early
The new term begins, many parents begin to worry, the child does things and dawdles, always absent-minded, no matter in study or in life. Especially the children of the lower grade, but that 7 -year-old child of mine is no exception. Do I want to know, is this a intelligence question? Need seeking medical advice? How to correct? How to let children have a sense of urgency on time like adult?
Reporter's investigation finds, many children all do things absent-mindedly, the phenomenon of dawdling. This may be a normal response in the face of the school pressure, parents' pressure of theirs, also may be the manifestation of obstacle of hyperkinetic syndrome, learning ability.
The behavioral expert of Deputy Director, children of the pediatrics of Red Cross, Guangzhou hospital Yu ShaoWei says, the child who often dawdles should go to the hospital to do the inspection as soon as possible, confirm whether it is hyperkinetic syndrome or learning ability obstacle or not. As to these children, parents and teacher must be patient, confident, adopt the method encouraged, cooperate with the doctor's intervention treatment, let them " stand up quickly " bit by bit .
It needn't be afraid to dawdle once in a while Fear to go to school mostly
Case analysis
Case: Small great wave and 8 years old, have already entered second grade of primary school. Here on the summer vacation of the past just now, he was still very obedient, just stand up and help mother to do house work early in the morning every day. But after the new term begins, the small great wave becomes lazy, urge five or six times to still stay at the ranging from bed and refuse to leave in the morning, wash, want, facing toward mirror, take five minute before the face, finish after the shoelace stopping " think " again Five minutes. Mother summarize, say small great wave present want " kick 10 feet " ,Just " take one steps " .
Diagnose: Yan Yan, psychological expert of children, of teacher's organization of some psychological consultation of Guangzhou says, it is very common that the child presents this kind of phenomenon before going to school, the reason may be that the child does not want to go to the school, just as they were crying and screaming without wanting to go the kindergarten as a child.
Yan Yan says, some children only want to study, terrified to the school. Parents will communicate with the school in time at this time, will find out about the child's behavior, discover the problems to dissolve in time. If there is no special problem, parents don't abuse children either. It is normal that the child has reliance on family, if the family can not hold him, the children can go to have no place. After the new term begins for some time, the children will return to normal slowly.
The slow achievement drops to do things It will be probably hyperkinetic syndrome
Case: While just studying in the primary school young outstanding five years before, mother, on finding it was very slow that he did things. The teacher thinks energy was not centralized enough, absent-minded when he gives a lesson. The most serious one is to write the homework, other classmates finished writing at nine p.m., it is small and outstanding but dawdle until over 11 o'clock every day, mother letting nearby accompany suffers unspeakably. Until second grade, little outstanding achievement already the whole class counts backwards.
Diagnose: Yu ShaoWei introduces, hyperkinetic syndrome is divided into three kinds of types. First, excited type, it is very active that the infant is often shown as, the personality is irritable and bigoted, do things and ignore the consequence. The second kind is a attention defect type, it is moved that children of this kind have actually few at ordinary times, look very gentle and quiet, open eyes and sit on the seat honestly while having a class, but close one's ears to the content that a teacher explains. They lose the small things of key, books,etc. every other day, no matter what task is arranged, they are all difficult to finish. The third kind is the phenotype, namely mix the characteristics of the above-mentioned two kinds of types.
Generally speaking, excited type and hybrid hyperkinetic syndrome is easier to find, but the defect type infant of attention is often neglected by parents. It is exactly defect type hyperkinetic syndrome of attention to be small and outstanding. Like a lot of hyperkinetic syndrome children, small to suffer from the learning ability obstacle meanwhile while being outstanding.
It is all discontinuous to do any things Improper to educate children to slacken
Case: Strong son is 5 years old this year, parents do business, grandparents guard him at ordinary times. Strong son can't bear at more than two years old stupid and of low quality, the family so long as all things that can move, can be broken have been destroyed by him. The strong son sits on the floor for a moment, squat by the dining table for a moment while having a meal, going to toilet will run out and take things four or five times midway. Over two o'clock, grandfather give strong son come hospital receive treatment each time, parents but once appear.
Diagnose: Yu ShaoWei says, in suffering from the children of hyperkinetic syndrome, learning ability obstacle, it is that old man, nurse brought oldly to be a greater part of. So-called " separate and take the place of kissing " ,Old man fond of, have, add to people Sun, behavior in child restrain seldom, growth in child unfavorable instead like this.
"The growth of the child of parents, teacher is too important, the doctor's treatment if the cooperation result of getting them is limited. " Yu ShaoWei certainly says. He advises parents to spend time accompanying the child more. Some parents look after the child and can not do things agily, not study well, think children stupid or lazy, abuse children. Will become numb that what the child heard has been abused a lot of.
The expert proposes: Don't give easily " The slow child " Determine the nature!
The therapeutic effect? Intervene and train 80% effectively
ShaoWei Yu tell reporter whether meet come child of hospital, doctor will until " whether learning ability measure table " and " whether children move, sift, check table more " give them make, check. And treat the method to train very more, for example a method is called " three thirds " ,The props are a lot triangular, cylindrical and square module. Doctor will let child make, make three module up by various ceaselessly, so as, train reaction speed of child, listen to consciousness, look at consciousness with the intersection of hand and eyes, coordinate ability. Except train, some children who suffer from hyperkinetic syndrome need drug therapy.
Yu ShaoWei says, " already good that 50% can correct at all, the children of 80% will be effective after treatment, other 20% child may very much difficult to cure. "
Treat golden period? 5 to 8 years old personality shapes one
Once one day, Yu ShaoWei connected and examined 17 children with hyperkinetic syndrome or learning ability obstacle, among them 12 have been already over 11 years old. "Too old, the therapeutic effect might not be good. " Yu ShaoWei says candidly. "Prime time treating is 5 to 8 years old, because the key period shaped by child's personality this period. "
The learning ability of the child of hyperkinetic syndrome or learning ability obstacle will be worse, this kind of situation is not also very obvious in one primary school, second grade, a lot of parents do not care. Until three grade, study pressure, strengthen, inferior position of child these embody. If the child is a bit bigger, always study worse, he has already included oneself in the ranks of the bad student, it is more difficult for the treatment to stand up.
Treat the main point? Parents want to contain by oneself Encourage more children
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