How to carry on psychological education to the child

How to carry on psychological education to the child
1. It takes half an hour to exchange with child every day.
2.Should use the civilization term at home too with the child, " good morning, ask, thanks, good night " When.
3. Good habit of the hygiene of letting children form loving.
4. Listen to the child's voices more - -With the patient, use love, use and listen attentively to happily, the heart is with eyes.
5. In order to remind children, and always take off the child's scar.
6. Point out the child's mistake strictly!
7. Don't be always in all seriousness to the child, laugh heartily with child more: Because the laugh can let children love life further; Lead children to treat the things happily positively and easily.
8. Tell a story to children, should have patience, the story has certain education meanings.
9.Don't force the ideal not realized that year on child, let children realize.
10. Care about the child, but the proper time, appropriate punishment are needed, don't shield a shortcoming or fault for the child.
11. Education might not just state the reasons, can take some tough measures appropriately sometimes.
12. Combine the child's behavior, ponder over at least one question regarding the child grows up every day.
13. Educate art to the child, train child's graceful aesthetic temperament and interest, pay attention to the perceptual knowledge of guiding, abundant child, the emotion of strengthening the child in the nature is experienced, it is very beneficial.
14. Child in growth stage, don't let they and ancestors live together for a long time, though separate and take the place of kissing even more, is unfavorable to education. Perhaps this does not have a scientific reason, but absolutely applicable.
15. Pay attention to training the child's mercy. Ancient cloud: Don't and for it, don't with but with little evil.
16. Teach children how to smile, smile in the face of everything of life, smile in the face of life.
17. Mustn't make a vow to the child arbitrarily, the thing promised is left no stone unturned to be fulfilled too.
18. Want replacement frequently and think deeply. To to make, think child, parents should replacement think if I am the child often, how am I?
19. Give children certain spaces and freedom, give him certain pressure and responsibility at the same time.
20. Prove to the child, he has been already very lovely, needn't display oneself again.
21. Do not say the child is worse than other children.
22. Needn't abuse to punish the child definitely.
23. In the thing that the child does, are looking for the thing that is worth praising constantly.
24. Don't be frightened the child, so as not to cause children to be too timid and overcautioning.
25. Don't criticize and laugh at children in public, so as not to cause the psychological deformity, lose self-confidence,etc..
26. Don't be too severe to the child, in case that the child fears, shy, does not dare to express one's own view, form the personality of the surface with fierce mercy.
27. Don't praise children excessively, in case that the child forms " fishes for fame and compliments " Bad custom.
28. Don't imply the child does the bad thing.
29. Help children to establish the idol in the mind correctly.
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