It is peaceful and mediocre that the woman of exceptional talent and ability is discontented with the husband The expert proposes examining bidirectionally

It is peaceful and mediocre that the woman of exceptional talent and ability is discontented with the husband The expert proposes examining bidirectionally
Zhuo Xiao, 33 years old, the foreign enterprise manages high: I marry 5 year, and husband the intersection of university and schoolmate that year, natural to become couple. He loves me, I pursue and have a successful career, and with its reciprocal high income. Gradually, chef and concurrently executive in the husband gets married, I am high step by step in the on-the-job field, the salary have several more times than the husband, my sense of loss grows with each passing day. Could you tell me: I should transform the mediocre husband, or change my unrealisticallying compare to loving?
The expert proposes:
First, avoid and get rid of the sense of loss after marriage, your task of top priority is differences of finding out the marriage with mutual life, find each other to life different issues of wing and blueprint, then try from the two poles to change in the middle and then.
Second, collect the evidence of the true love, examine bidirectionally for oneself: He and I are not the same to the localization in life, if I love him yet, am I willing how to do? What facts can prove I love him? If I love he, I with how make? What facts can prove I will not love? Compare with the answer, if like admitting him, seek common ground while reserving difference; If does not love, give up boldly, then look for the person who you want - --Certainly, provided that you have already got ready to bury singly for the new choice.
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