The woman becomes postpartum " The man " The husband cared for in 10 to return a body to the daughter after all
The skin becomes glossy, the eyebrow grows too Yesterday, the municipal clinic of institute of traditional Chinese medicine of Hangzhou, high source (assumed name) Looking oneself up and down in the mirror carefully, over the past 10 years, she has dared to look in the mirror for the first time.
10 years ago, 32 -year-old Gao Yuan's postpartum massive haemorrhage, blamed the disease to be burdened with hereafter: Breast wither and period stop, the eyebrow, armpit hair, pubes are lossed slowly, the sound becomes low-spirited She disappearing gradually in women's characteristic, sets foot on 10 and seeks medical advice on the way.
She does not make as the woman postpartum
The high source comes from Hunan.
10 years ago, she is in the hospital of county town of native place just before giving birth. Having difficult labour, in a situation that adult and child can only choose one, the husband says without the least hesitation: "Protect adults. " Subsequently, the high source goes into a coma because of massive haemorrhage, through rescuing, the life can be regarded as and kept, but her health has collapsed.
Since then, the appetite of the high source has become bad, can only drink some porridge every day, even vomit to drink water when being serious; She is still often dizzy and weak, lies in bed and can not stand up; Winter is afraid of cold, edema appears too in the health.
Because symptom is shown as and had a stomach upset, the high source is regarded as a disease of the digestive system to treat in the local hospital. As soon as the health is uncomfortable, the husband brings her to the small hospital to hang the brine, but the condition has not taken a favorable turn all the time, more and more unusual instead: Her women's characteristic is dying away.
High source is 167 centimetres in height, though the feature is ordinary, the tall stature is still outstanding. The husband is a man with tall and big spirit too.
It is exactly age that woman like to be beautiful to be over 30 years old, look like woman, the fact make high source overwhelmed with sorrow. Here at husband especially, high source spirit still more.
The husband is not before abandoning the support that is greatest
When the high source is the most painful, husband the intersection of she and most great ideological impetus from abandon.
"Most a word that he tell me, ' it has an optimistic view of diseases of you to be the intersection of I and the intersection of lifetime and most important thing this, I must let you cure '. " Mention husband, besides grateful to still feel ashamed and regretful in the high heart of source.
While just leaving hospital and going home in high source, the health was timid, ate, drank, drew, spread and wanted someone to look after. "At that time, the eldest daughter was young, there is no adult to help, I can only do it by myself. " Yesterday, talked about the thing of looking after the wife, " couple were all the same that this honest man just said 3 sentences in succession, must look after " .
Get up early in the morning and cook, arrange for the daughter to go to school, then give and lie and have gargling, give the meal the wife in bed, house work for one day that then busy living In the ill initial stage of high source, the husband's life is not altered under any circumstances. 3 solid years, the cropland most important to peasant, because should look after the wife, have fallen into disuse.
"She is really a good woman who can keep house very well, I worked as a temporary labourer in the other places in the past, the thing of the family is busy with alive by her, does not need me to worry about at all. She is ill now, how could I give up at this point? "
The high source needed treating for a long time, the husband is unable to go out to work and make money, this family fell into the condition unable to make ends meet quickly.
In order to support the family, even more in order to make money for the wife to cure the disease. 5 years ago, this kindhearted man, the wife that stabilized bringing the condition a bit came to Hangzhou to work as a temporary labourer. His work, go to the construction site that the fellow-villager introduces to act as the unskilled labourer.
"Has just been here at that time, my disease has not become serious, but my appearance badly hurts us. " Because of illness, high the intersection of health and edema of source, like a piece of " pregnant " very Pregnant woman,when Hangzhou suburb wanted to see that hired out the room, think landlords whether it is on they escape to give birth to by that child, will be all right only if be certain about growing the card. Can not take out and grow the card accurately, the house falls through again and again.
Finally, under the fellow-villager's identification, husband and wife have found the place to stay.
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